The Barr-Harris Children's Grief Center

BIBLIOGRAPHY
Parent and Sibling Loss
Through Death or Abandonment
In Childhood and Adolescence

 


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Overview
Developmental Perspective on Children's Understanding of Death
Preschoolers and School-Age Children
Bereavement in Adolescence
Abandonment, Foster Care
Military Families
Sibling Loss
Trauma and Bereavement (Violence, Suicide)
Preventive Interventions and Psychotherapy


Overview of Childhood Bereavement

Altschul, S. (1988). Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath. Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Berlinsky, E.B. and Biller, H.B. (1992), Parental Death and Psychological Development. Lexington, MA: Lexington Books.

Cain, A., Kalter, N., et al. Parentally Bereaved Children: Factors Associated with Psychosocial Adjustment. (In preparation).

Edelman, Hope (2006). Motherless Daughters: The Legacy of Loss (Second Edition). Cambridge, MA: Da Capo Press, Perseus Books Group. ISBN-13: 978-0-7382-1026-1 (paperback), 978-0-465-05653-9 

Grollman, Earl A., Ed. (1996). Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for Parents and Professionals. Boston: Beacon Press.

Osterweis, M. et al. (Eds.) (1984), Bereavement: Reactions, Consequences, and Care. Washington, DC: National Academy Press.

Samuels, A. (1988). Parental Death in Childhood. In Altschul, S., Ed., Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath, Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Silverman, P., Klass, D., Nickman, S. (1966), Continuing Bonds: A New Understanding of Grief. Washington, D.C.: Taylor and Francis.

--------, Worden, J. (1993). Children’s Reactions to the Death of a Parent. In Bereavement: A Sourcebook of Research Intervention. Strobe, M., Stroebe, W., & Hanson, R.. (Eds.), England: Cambridge University Press.

Walsh, Fromma & McGoldrick, Monica. (2004) Living Beyond Loss: Death in the Family. Second Edition. NY: W.W. Norton. This is a well-written book whose greatest value is putting the subject of loss in a cultural context. The family context is also highlighted; however, that aspect does not offer anything that has not been said before by others.

Developmental Perspective on Children's Understanding of Death

Christ, Grace Hyslop (2000). Healing Children's Grief: Surviving a Parent's Death from Cancer.  NY: Oxford University Press. ISBN: 0-19-510590-7 (hardcover), 0-19-510590-5 (paperback).

Garber. Benjamin. (2008) Mourning in Children: A Theoretical Synthesis and Clinical Application. Annual of Psychoanalysis, 36: 174-188.

Speece, M.W., & Brent, S.B. (1992), The Acquisition of a Mature Understanding of Three Components of a Concept of Death. Death Studies. 16:211-229.

Stambrook, M., & Parker, K.C. (1987), The Development of the Concept of Death in Childhood: A Review of the Literature. Merrill-Palmer Quarterly. 33:133-157.

Talmon, O., Kederm, P., & Har-Even, D., Orbach, I., (1987). Sequential Patterns of Five Subconcepts of Human and Animal Death in Children. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 26:578-582.

Worden, J. William, (1996). Children and Grief: When a Parent Dies. NY: Guilford Press. ISBN: 1-57230-148-1 (hardcover), 1-57230-746-3 (Paperback)

Zero to Three, Coping with Trauma and Loss. Zero to Three, September, 2010, Vol. 31, #1. https://secure2.convio.net/zttcfn/site/Ecommerce/1175228803?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&
product_id=3841&store_id=1121 

Childhood Mourning and Adaptation: Preschoolers and School-Age Children

 Barnes, M.I. (1964), Reactions to the Death of a Mother. The Psychoanalytic Study of the Child. 15:9-52. NY: International Universities Press.

 Cain, A., Kalter, N., et al. Parentally Bereaved Children: Factors Associated with Psychosocial Adjustment. (In preparation).

Chetnik, M. (1970). The Impact of Object Loss on a Six-Year-Old. Journal of the American Academy of Child Psychiatry. 9:625-643.

Essa, E., & Murray, C. (1994), Young Children’s Understanding and Experience with Death. Young Children. 49:No. 4, May 1994. pp. 74-81.

Furman, E. (1990). Plant a Potato – Learn about Life (and Death). Young Children, November , pp. 15-20.

 --------, (1984), Children’s Patterns in Mourning the Death of a Loved One. In. H. Wass & C. Carr. (Eds), Childhood and Death. NY: Hemisphere Pub. Co. Pp. 185-203

 --------, (1974), A Child’s Parent Dies: Studies in Childhood Bereavement. New Haven, CT:Yale University Press. Pp. 11-26.

 Furman, R. (1995), Helping Children Cope with Stress and Deal with Feelings. Young Children, Jan. 1995, pp. 33-41.

-------- (1964), Death and the Young Child: Some Preliminary Considerations. The Psychoanalytic Study of the Child, 19:377-396. NY: International Universities Press.

Knight-Birnbaum, N., & C. Webber (1993). Childhood Mourning and the Learning Process, In K. Field, E. Kaufman, & C. Salzman (Eds.) Emotions and Learning Reconsidered: An International Perspective. NY: Gardner Press.

McDonald, M. (1964), A Study of the Reactions of Nursery School Children to the Death of a Child’s Mother. The Psychoanalytic Study of the Child. 19:358-376. NY: International Universities Press.

Palombo, J. (1981). Parent Loss and Childhood Bereavement: Some Theoretical Considerations. Clinical Social Work Journal, 9:3-33.

Silverman, P.R. et al. (1992), Detachment Revisited: The Child’s Reconstruction of A Dead Parent. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, 62:494-503.

--------., & Worden, J. (1993). Children’s Reactions to the Death of a Parent. In M. Stroebe, W. Stroebe & R. Hansson (Eds.), Bereavement, A Sourcebook of Research and Intervention. England: Cambridge University Press.

Weller, E. (1993), Psychosocial Functioning of Children After the Death of a Parent. American. Journal of Psychiatry, March.

Bereavement in Adolescence

Brockman, D.D. (1988). Preadolescence and Early Adolescence: A Reconstruction. In S. Altschul (Ed.), Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath, Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

 Garber, B. 1995), The Child and Adolescent Literature about the Death of a Parent. Adolescent Psychiatry. Marohn, R., (Ed.), Vol. XX. Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.

--------, (1985), Mourning in Adolescence: Normal and Pathological. In Feinstein, S., et al. (Eds.) Adolescent Psychiatry. Vol. 12, Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.

--------, (1983), Some Thoughts on Normal Adolescents Who Lost a Parent Through Death. Journal of Youth and Adolescence. Vol. 12, No. 3.

Abandonment, Foster Care

Bowlby, John (1980). Loss:  Sadness and Depression. NY: Basic Books.  ISBN 0-465-004237-6 (cloth), 0-465-04238-4 (paper).

Krebs, Tracy. Loyalty Issues in Foster Care. http://www.focusonyouth.com,/pdfs/Loyalty%20Issues%20in%20Foster%20Care%20.pdf.

Osofsky, J.D.(1992). Affective development and early relationships: Clinical implications. In James W. Barron,  Morris N. Eagle, & David Leo Wolitzky (Eds.), Interface of Psychoanalysis and Psychology (pp. 233-244).. Washington, DC: American Psychological Association.

Samuels, S. C..(1995). Helping foster children to mourn past relationships. Psychoanalytic Study of the Child, 50:308-326.

Military Families, Loss and Grief

Hockstader, Lee. Loneliness, anxiety grip students and staff while family members are assigned to Iraq. Washington Post, Jan. 12, 2004, p. A01.
 http://www.washingtonpost.com/ac2/wp-dyn/A8425-2004Jan11?language=printer

Newsweek. Children of the fallen. March 21, 2005. http://www.newsweek.com/id/49171.

Vlahos, Kelley Beaucar. War takes toll on military kids. http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,119887,00.html

Zero to Three.  Supporting Babies and Toddlers in Military Families:  A Professional Guide. http://www.zerotothree.org/about-us/funded-projects/military-families/syc-3.pdf

Sibling Loss

Crehan, G. (2004). The Surviving Sibling: The Effects of Sibling Death in Childhood. Psychoanal. Psyotherapy, 18: 202-219.

Fanos, Joanna H. (1996). Sibling Loss. Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates. ISBN 0-8058-1777-8  (c), 0-8058-1778-6 (p).

The Interaction of Trauma and Bereavement; Considerations of Traumatic Loss

Altman, Neil (2010). The Analyst in the Inner City: Race, Class and Cullture through a Pschoanalyhtic Lens. (Second Edition). NY: Routledge (Taylor & Francis Group). ISBN: 978-0-88163-499-0 (hardcover), 978-0-88163-500-3 (paperback).

Blum, Harold P. (2003). Psychic Trauma and Traumatic Object Loss. J. Amer. Psychoanalytic Assn., 51: 415-431.

Cerel, J., Fristad, M.A., Weller, E.. & Weller, R.A. (1999). Suicide-bereaved Children and Adolescents; A Controlled Longitudinal Examination. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, 38, 672-679.

Eth, S., & Pynoos, R. (1985). Interaction of Trauma and Grief in Childhood. In S. Eth & R. Pynoos (Eds.), Post Trauma and Stress Disorder in Childhood. Washington, DC: Am. Psychiatric Press.

Fremont, Wanda P. Ten-year Research Update Review: Childhood Reactions to Terrorism. Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, April, 2004. Discusses research on the Oklahoma City bombing and 9/11.

Furman, E., (1986), On Trauma, When is the Death of a Parent Traumatic? Psychoanalytic Study of the Child. New Haven: International Universities Press, 41:191-208.

Garbarino, J., Dubrow, N., Kostelny, K., & Pardo, C. (1992). Children in Danger. Chapter 6, School as a Refuge: The Importance of Early Intervention. Chapter 8, Developing Supportive Settings For Children at Risk. Chapter 9, Helping Teachers Help Children. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Osofsky, Joy D. (Editor). (2004). Young Children and Trauma: Intervention and Treatment. NY: Guilford Press. This is a very useful book for anyone who works with severely traumatized young children, mostly pre-schoolers. Dr. Osofsky is a highly respected analytically-oriented researcher in this field. The book is a compilation from various contributors; however, the chapters by Dr. Osofsky are the strongest.

Parsons, E.R. (1995), Post-Traumatic Stress and Coping in an Inner-City Child; Traumatogenic Witnessing of Interparental Violence and Murder. Psychoanalytic Study of the Child. Madison, CT. International Universities Press.

Perry, Bruce D. et al. (1995). Childhood Trauma, Neurobiology of Adaptation, and "Use-dependent" Development of the Brain: How "States" become "Traits." Infant Mental Health J., 16(4), 271-291. (For a pdf file of this article, click here.)

--------, & Szalavitz, Maia (2006). The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog: And Other Stories from a Child Psychiatrist's Notebook--What Traumatized Children Can Teach Us About Loss, Love, and Healing. NY: Basic Books. IBN 13: 978-0-465-05653-8, ISBN-10: 978=0-465-05653-9 

Pynoos, R., Nader, I. (1988), Psychological First Aid and Treatment Approach to Children Exposed to Community Violence: Research Implications. Journal of Traumatic Stress, Vol. 1, No. 4. 1988, pp. 445-473.

Requarth, Margo (2006). After A Parent's Suicide: Helping Children Heal. Sebastopol, CA: Healing Hearts Press.

Schwarz, Eitan D. & Perry, Bruce D. (1994). The Post-traumatic Response in Children and Adolescents. Psychiatric Clinics of North America, 17(2): 311-326. (For a pdf file of this article, click here.)

Terr, Lenore (1990).  Too Scared To Cry: Psychic Trauma in Childhood. NY: Basic Books. ISBN: 0-06-016335-6 (hardcover), 0-465-08644-6 (paperback).

Wallach, L., (1993), Helping Children Cope with Violence. Young

Zero to Three (2010). Coping with Trauma and Loss. Zero to Three, September, 2010, Vol. 31, #1. https://secure2.convio.net/zttcfn/site/Ecommerce/1175228803?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&
product_id=3841&store_id=1121 

Preventive Interventions and Psychotherapy

Chetnik, M. (1989), Focal Psychotherapy; A Bereavement Reaction. In M.Chethik, Techniques of Child Therapy, Psychodynamic Strategies. NY: Guilford.

Christ, Grace Hyslop (2000). Healing Children's Grief: Surviving a Parent's Death from Cancer.  NY: Oxford University Press. ISBN: 0-19-510590-7 (hardcover), 0-19-510590-5 (paperback).

Coleman, S. (1991), Intergenerational Patterns of Traumatic Loss: Death and Despair in Addict Families. In Walsh, F. & McGoldrick, M., Living Beyond Loss. NY: W.W. Norton.

Furman, E. (1974). Helping Bereaved Children. In When a Child’s Parent Dies: Studies in Childhood Bereavement. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press.

Garber. Benjamin. (2008) Mourning in Children: A Theoretical Synthesis and Clinical Application. Annual of Psychoanalysis, 36: 174-188.

Grollman, Earl E. (1995). Bereaved Children and Teens: A Support Guide for Parents and Professionals. Boston: Beacon Press. ISBN: 978-0-8070-2307-3

--------, Earl A. (Ed.) (Sept. 6, 2011). Talking about Death: A Dialogue between Parent and Child. NY: Random House. ISBN: 978-0-8070-2361-7

Hummer, K. (1988), Johnny: Mobilizing a Child’s Capacity to Mourn by Means of Psychotherapy. In Altschul, S. (Ed.) Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath. Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

 Knight-Birnbaum, N. (1988). Therapeutic Work with Bereaved Parents. In Altschul, S. (Ed.), Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath, Madison, CT: International Univ. Press.

Lieberman, Alicia (2005).  Don't Hit My Mommy!: A Manual for Child-Parent Psychotherapy with Young Witnesses of Family Violence (2005). Zero to Three.Press https://secure2.convio.net/zttcfn/site/Ecommerce?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&product_id=1802&
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  ISBN 978-0943657844

--------. et al. (2003).  Losing a Parent to Death in the Early Years: Guidelines for the Treatment of Traumatic Bereavement in Infancy and Early Childhood.  Zero to Three Press, https://secure2.convio.net/zttcfn/site/Ecommerce/2079148056?VIEW_PRODUCT=true&product_id=1821&store_id=1121 ISBN: 978-0943657721.

--------. & Van Horn, Patricia (2008). Psychotherapy with Infants and Young Children: Repairing the Effects of Stress and Trauma on Early Attachment. NY: Guilford Press. ISBN 978-1-59385-675-5 (hardcover), 978-1-60918-240-3 (paperback).

Lohnes, K.L., Kalter, N. (1994), Preventive Intervention Groups for Parentally Bereaved Children. American Journal of Orthopsychiatry 64 (4); pp. 594-603.

McGoldrick, Monica (1991), Echoes from the Past: Helping Families Mourn their Loss. In Walsh, F. & McGoldrick, M., Living Beyond Loss. NY: W.W. Norton.

McGoldrick, M., Almeida, R., Garcia-Presto, N., et al. (1991). Mourning in Different Cultures. In Walsh, F. & McGoldrick, M., Living Beyond Loss. NY: W.W. Norton.

Perry, Bruce D. (2006). Applying Principles of Neurodevelopment to Clinical Work with Maltreated and Traumatized Children. In Webb, Nancy Boyd (Ed.), Working with Traumatized Youth in Child Welfare. NY: Guilford Press. ISBN-13: 9781593852245; ISBN-10: 159385224X. Pp. 27-52. (For a pdf file of this article, click here.)

Raphael., B. (1983). Caring for the Bereaved Child. In Anatomy of Bereavement, pp. 352-401. NY: Basic Books.

Samuels, A. (1988). The Influence of the Recent Death of a Spouse on the Parenting Function of the Surviving Parent. In S. Altschul (Ed.), Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath. CT: International Universities Press.

Sang, Dorothy, (1994). The Worry Teacher Comes on Thursdays: Clinical Consultation in a Kindergarten Class. Young Children, January 1994, pp. 24-31.

Shapiro, E., (1994), Helping Bereaved Families; Enhancing Strategies for Stable Reorganization. In Grief as a Family Process, NY: Guilford Press.

Webber, C. (1988), Diagnostic Interventions with Children at Risk. In Altschul, S., (Ed.) Childhood Bereavement and Its Aftermath, Madison, CT: International Universities Press.

Worden, J. William, (1996). Children and Grief: When a Parent Dies. NY: Guilford Press. ISBN: 1-57230-148-1 (hardcover), 1-57230-746-3 (Paperback)

--------, (2009). Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy: A Handbook for the Mental Health Practitioners (Fourth Edition). NY: Springer. ISN 978-0-8261-0120-4, 978-0-8261-2456-2 (International Edition).
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